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The older girl to Miss Treby's right is Margaret, who had been longest at St Hilary. It has always been said that ten children arrived with Miss Treby, but this photograph shows eleven. Dick Crowe, who was one of them, says that there are one too many boys in the photograph. He can identify them all except one. Fr Patten's potted history of the circumstances of their arrival and the subsequent development of the Home can be read in the extract from the Mirror of Autumn 1957. When they came their first home was a temporary one in cottages in Almonry Lane off the High Street, with Miss Struggles, a well-known figure in the village. Fr Walke's Committee had bought two cottages in Knight Street in preparation for them but these could not be vacated in time before the children arrived. When the cost of keeping them in the temporary accommodation became too high they were moved into part of Fr Patten's vicarage. In addition, the war had started and it was unlikely that the necessary building work to adapt their own cottages could be done while that was on. In 2008 Dick Crowe, one of the original group from Cornwall, visited Walsingham for the first time for over fifty years. In his reminiscences he vividly recalled life for the children in the Vicarage days and described his emotions as he revisited his old haunts. Within
a few years the Guardians were planning for a more secure Home. In For years the house was known as The Falcons, and the first children did not think of themselves as "St Hilary's". Dick Crowe's first driving licence gives his address as "The Falcons". Our Lady's Mirror's regular reports in every issue are headed "Children's Home". From the Autumn 1949 issue it is referred to as "S. Hilary - The Home", until finally "St Hilary's" in 1951. As the boys and girls grew and went out into the world, it was decided to accept boys only as new entrants and to maintain it in future as a boys' home. After
they left St Hilary's most of the boys and girls kept in touch, often
St Hilary's was always run on a shoe-string, supported by pilgrims and other readers of Our Lady's Mirror; priests and parishes were constantly fund raising, and many parishes and pilgrims provided holidays each year . A regular feature at Christmas was the envelope sent out to all members of the Society of Our Lady of Walsingham and others, to be passed around at the Christmas lunch table, filled with money, and sent back to the Shrine. In
1953 a hostel was opened in the High Street to cater for the older boys
now The Guardians had no alternative but to close the Home in 1977. Changes in welfare service provision made a home such as this no longer viable, or needed. After various other uses by the Shrine it was sold in 2004 and turned into a popular Bed & Breakfast establishment. Since 2008 it has been privately owned. MATRONS
In 1948 a new chapter began for St Hilary's. Miss Jessie Mary (Molly) Bartholomew (known as "Barty" - pictured left) was appointed, and her friend Miss Dorothy Williams (known as "Miss Will") soon joined her as assistant matron. (It is thought that Mrs Dorothy Ferrier, a well-known resident of Walsingham, had introduced Barty to the Shrine.) Together they ran the Home for twenty-one happy and successful years. As a consequence of Barty's ill-health they retired in October 1969, and she died on 7 January 1971. Click here for the Home's 1970 Report containing Barty's obituary. Their
successors in October 1969 were Niall and Judy O'Connor, who left in 1971,
and after a brief interval two more friends took over - Christine Smith
and Carole Baker. In October 1972 what proved to be the last houseparents
were appointed: Victor and Elizabeth Terry, with their children Lisette
and Nicholas, oversaw a happy last five years before the Guardians were
obliged to close the Home in April 1977. |